Ironically, there’s a very short amount of time between “That would never be me!” and “Oops, I did it again!” Many of us have promised ourselves that we would never do specific things when we were younger, only to find them as part of our daily routines as age and get wiser. As we grow older, our perspectives, priorities, and preferences grow and shift, and we come to realize certain aversions are childish.
From “wasting time” watching birds to sipping fine wine to rising with the sun, many things that we once thought were lame or boring now seem like a satisfying and fulfilling part of adult life.
These things go beyond simply hobbies or pastimes— it’s also about our perspective. Netizens in an online forum shared the things they didn’t ever see themselves doing, but which they now do without a thought, and we totally relate.
1. Enjoying the Quiet Life
For most of us, young life was all about excitement and stimulation. We wanted to be surrounded by people, music, or activities at all times. A quiet Friday evening or weekend at home seemed like a waste of time.
As we get older, the appeal of staying in and having a peaceful night becomes more desirable. We may even find ourselves actively seeking peace, whether relaxing after a long week or enjoying some alone time. Nowadays, the best part of weekend plans is when people cancel those plans.
2. Shouting at Our Kids
Remember how we promised never to yell or get angry at our kids? Many of us promised to be gentle parents who reasoned with our children— and then the children arrived. Well, let’s say parenting is not as easy as it seems. And sometimes a kid’s hearing is as good as a block of wood.
As much as we try to be patient and understanding, there are moments when we lose our cool and end up raising our voices. It’s a natural part of being a parent, and as we grow older, we realize that sometimes a little yelling feels necessary to get our point across.
3. Taking Naps on Purpose
When we were children, the idea of taking naps seemed like a punishment. We wanted to spend every moment playing or enjoying ourselves, and anything was better than being forced to nap.
As adults, the thought of taking a quick nap during the day feels like heaven. We understand the value of rest. Given our packed schedules and chaotic lives, any chance to get some much-needed sleep is a blessing.
4. Get Out Of Shape
How many of us are guilty of privately sneering at the out-of-shape grownups panting up a flight of stairs when we were younger? We imagined having endless energy, eating whatever we wanted, never exercising, and still having a perfectly toned body.
The hard-to-leave visceral fat is having the last laugh. As we age, our metabolisms slow down, and gravity does its thing. We may have now found ourselves gaining weight or losing muscle tone without even realizing it. Maintaining a healthy lifestyle from an early age will help us to maintain a healthy body and age better.
5. Drink Coffee Daily
Does any child really understand why adults need a daily dose of caffeine to function? For most of us, coffee was just a nasty, brown liquid we’d never touch with a ten-foot pole. Well, the steaming mug in front of you would say otherwise now.
Coffee has become a vital part of our daily routines; a study shows that at least 66% of Americans drink coffee daily. Now, we can’t imagine starting our day without a cup of coffee.
6. Bird watching
Some people admit that bird watching seemed like an incredibly boring activity. Why anyone would waste their time sitting quietly, waiting for birds to appear? What’s so fascinating about the little flying dinosaurs?
But as adults, we start to appreciate the beauty of nature, and some find joy in observing different types of birds. Birdwatchers will admit that it gives them a peaceful escape from their busy lives, allowing them to slow down and appreciate the little things.
7. Waking Up Early
We loved to wake up unusually early as children and then lose this habit as teenagers. Teenage and youth is a time to be nocturnal, staying up late and sleeping in until noon. Waking up early seems like a punishment we’d hate to endure.
But as we age, waking up early becomes a necessity rather than a choice. Whether for work, family responsibilities, or just making the most of our day, we start to understand the benefits of being an early riser. We may even find that we are more productive and motivated in the morning than at night.
8. Moving Back in with Parents
For many people, moving back in with their parents post-college felt like the definition of failure. It’s a dreadful idea (or so some people tell us). We were eager for independence and the experience of living by ourselves. A 2023 survey showed that nearly half of American adults are now moving back to live with their parents.
Many adults find themselves needing to move back in with their parents for various reasons. Surprisingly, it’s not all that bad. We appreciate their support and guidance and often end up strengthening our relationships with them. It can be a great way to save money and get back on our feet.
9. Staying Single
How many of us had planned our lives down to the day we married, got two kids, and got a little white-haired dog? Relationships and dating were the center of many young people’s world. However, there are many single people who may not even be interested in relationships and tell a different story.
As we age, we appreciate our independence, focusing more on self-growth than relationships. Many find fulfillment in being single, viewing it as a positive choice for personal happiness and development.
10. Getting Married
On the flip side, some people didn’t see marriage as being in the cards for them. But as we became adults, love found some of us, and now we’re the perfect family, going to dance recitals and screaming the loudest at soccer games.
As adults, we often yearn for a life partner, and the stability marriage offers, valuing commitment and shared goals. Marriage, while not for everyone, is now viewed as a personal choice rather than an outdated tradition. This choice can lead to great fulfillment and happiness.
11. Getting Into the Same Career as Our Parents
One online user says they swore not to be a nurse because their parents and grandparents were nurses. We often feel the need to rebel against the idea of following in our parent’s footsteps and pursuing the same career as them. We want to create our path and find success on our own terms.
But sometimes, fate has other plans–and we become the very thing we never thought we would. We may even start to understand and appreciate the sacrifices our parents made for us and their valuable knowledge and experience in their respective fields. And we end up loving being what they were.
12. Never Smoking and Drinking
Depending on their upbringing, some people saw smoking and drinking as rebellious and swore never to indulge in such unhealthy matters. This could have been because their parents didn’t drink or smoke, or maybe they did, and their kids resented them for it.
Yet, these addictive and socially acceptable habits can easily creep in when we’re not looking. It’s up to each individual to decide what’s okay for them.
13. Getting a Tattoo
How many of us viewed tattoos with skepticism? Some may have never imagined getting inked, even though it was rather defiant. Some of us may be spotting a tattoo or two now, much to the dismay of our disapproving parents.
As we get older, our views on tattoos change. We start to see them as more than body art—they become a way to tell our stories. We respect tattoos more and understand they can show what’s important to us, like our values and beliefs, right on our skin.
14. Working At a Desk Job
Some people admit they never imagined themselves as 9-5 workers. They wanted excitement and adventure in their careers, jobs that broke the mold and offered fun.
When we entered the workforce, we understood the value of stability and a steady income. Every job has its own challenges and rewards; finding a balance between work and personal life is essential. We may even find fulfillment in careers we never thought we would consider.
As we grow older, we realize that our younger selves may have been naive or judgmental about certain things. We understand that experiences and perspectives change over time and embrace things we swore we’d never do.
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I’m a Language and Literary Studies (Honors) graduate with 11 years of experience in magazine and blog writing and content creation. I’m passionate about storytelling for change and believe in the power of words to make a difference. My writing is thought-provoking, accessible, and engaging, focusing on the Psychology of human behavior, complex social issues, personal experiences, and the latest trends. I’m a wife and a Mom of three.
