Has someone ever asked you a question and your heart melted? Some questions shout, “They see me!” Having someone care enough to ask the right questions feels like the ultimate jackpot. Be the person who connects with others while showing them that they matter and that you’re not just rushing past them. Trust is built …
Mercy Kambura
Who else often feels so small that the idea of making a difference seems like asking an ant to herd sheep? I’ve had better luck untangling a set of earbuds than feeling like I made a dent in making the world better. Yet, the truth is that change often begins with simple, everyday actions, like …
If you’re thinking of downsizing, you may be wondering how you can tackle the mountain of memories and forgotten “must-haves” without feeling like you’re losing a part of yourself in the process. Downsizing can be surprisingly empowering and, yes, even a little liberating, even if you still can’t ever picture yourself parting with that beloved …
Seeing dislike on someone’s face or in their actions isn’t the best feeling, but we can’t be everyone’s cup of tea. It’d be nice to know when someone doesn’t like us instantly. Unfortunately, it takes a few instances of not-so-nice interactions for this to dawn on us. Social politeness often masks genuine feelings. Not everyone …
“I’ll never forgive them” doesn’t sound very healthy. However, some folks seem to have perfected the art of messing things up—not just in small, forgivable ways. They can bring a heap of frustration, regret, and headaches when given another chance they didn’t quite earn. Forgiving can be freeing, but there’s no harm in admitting that …
Everything can be outsourced or ordered online these days. That’s why teaching yourself a skill feels like a mini rebellion. There’s something incredibly satisfying about rolling up your sleeves and tackling a can of paint, some spackle, and a hammer. You will save a few bucks, but you will also enjoy the thrill of creating …
Between closets that seem to have shrunk overnight and kitchen counters that disappear under a mountain of pans, finding creative ways to maximize storage is more than just a survival skill—it’s an art. You don’t have to live a minimalist lifestyle (unless that’s your thing), but you can still find smart, functional storage solutions. If …
Everyone is struggling with something, but when the struggle seems to be completely taking over their lives it’s no longer normal. You’ve probably done it too—hid behind a smile or deflected concern because admitting to struggling felt too heavy. Often, there’s a storm brewing beneath a calm exterior, cheerful conversation, or even the familiar “I’m …
There’s a difference between being frugal and looking downright cheap, and it has nothing to do with your bank account. We’ve all encountered someone whose appearance or behavior made us cringe—not because of who they are, but how they come across. You can have all the money in the world and still come off as …
When it comes to men, there are two important questions: what makes a good man? How do you raise a boy to become a good man? The day I found out I was having boy, I panicked! My firstborn was a girl, and I had a good grasp of navigating those waters. But a boy? …
