Whether we admit it or not, the inherent human tendency to pass judgment on each other is elaborately woven into our nature (we can’t help it!). Whether those judgments are said out loud is an entirely different can of worms. Thankfully, most people know how to bite their tongues and keep their harsh opinions to themselves- but that doesn’t mean we aren’t thinking of them.
Ultimately, we all harbor secret judgments. An online forum community shares their biggest secret notions, especially about other people.
1. Baby Names
Many people admit to judging parents for the weird names they give to their kids. And there are a lot of them these days as many parents strive to be unique.
“If it’s a normal name with a weird spelling, I’m judging so hard,” says one user. From strange spellings to inanimate objects, much judging is going on.
2. Eating with Your Mouth Open
Users cite all the bad manners they judge, such as eating with their mouths open. So many things gross people out with this- from the loud chewing to seeing the food in someone’s mouth.
Some people may not realize they’re doing it or were raised by parents who did the same, try not to judge too harshly.
3. Leaving Your Chair Out
When getting up from a chair, skipping out on the common courtesy of tucking it back in will warrant judgment from some people. It’s a basic life skill that we are supposed to learn in preschool, yet some people clearly forget.
Maybe the person is having a bad day or just needs a reminder to keep their space tidy.
4. Lack of Thank You
Not saying thank you when a door opens, a gift is given, or other kind gestures can give the impression that a person is rude or entitled- both of which often make people judge.
However, not everyone who forgets to say thank you is intentionally being rude, they might have other things on their mind that day or didn’t learn the importance of this skill.
5. Butt Exposure
Some people are over having to see unwanted body parts due to wardrobe malfunctions.
Whether it’s a plumber, a woman with a too-short dress, or a young teen in need of a belt- no one likes to see butt cracks or any other body parts that are expected to be covered in public.
6. Human Interaction in Public
Being rude to people trying to do their job never bodes well. Being rude to employees at restaurants, coffee shops, or any other service industry shows a lot about a person’s personality.
To all the Karens of the world, yes, you’re being judged.
7. Capturing Emotional Moments for Social Media
A few people mentioned that capturing emotional moments, like crying or sharing special news, felt ingenuine when a camera was pointed at someone’s face.
A writer shares, “Giving a sentimental gift to someone and recording their emotional response. Even with permission, it feels like it takes away from the genuine gesture and turns it into something exploitative.”
8. Constant Yelling at Kids
Many people are shocked when they encounter a parent screaming at their kids. A teacher shares, “Was a teacher for 5 years… and the amount of parents that are just a**h***s to their kids was so shocking to me. My parents were hard on me, but this was another level and it wasn’t just one parent.
I had parents introducing me to their kids at an open house and saying “he’s kinda an a**” or “thank goodness she’s cute because she’s an idiot”. And guess what? Those kids were wonderful because their teachers treated them with respect. The parents had no reason to scream at them for a B or to call them names.” Sadly, some kids endure a lot from their parents.
9. Basic Hygiene
A few people were flabbergasted (and judging) their co-workers for their complete lack of hygiene, particularly hand washing after using the bathroom.
A user shares a common gross story: “I’m looking at you, coworker of only 10 people in the building that rushed into the toilet, took a giant dump, wiped quickly, and walked straight for the door. I didn’t hear any turning on it the faucet.”
10. Cutting in Line
Cutting in line not only leads to judgments, but this particular action is hard for many people to keep quiet about- even if it’s just a loud sight or eye roll.
“It’s really not that hard to have enough courtesy to glance around before walking up to a checkout in a busy store. As if it ever happens that there just happens to be 1 of 8 registers left available with no line magically,” shares someone.
11. Vague Posts
People are over the intentional clickbait, especially when there is no intentional follow up- and they’re totally judging.
A user writes, “The attention seekers on Facebook that post things like : (Google Maps screenshot of the local hospital) “well that was crazy!”
And then they just watch the likes and the comments pour in, but they don’t respond to anything or give any details as to what happened.” These types of posts drive most people crazy and give loved ones of that person anxiety. So yes, people are judging.
12. Choosing a Side without The Whole Story
If there’s drama in a family or friend circle, people say they judge when a side is chosen too quickly (particularly if only one side of that story has been shared.
A user shares, “It’s the worst when the other party tries to correct the narrative, and they won’t listen because they “don’t want to choose sides” or get involved. If you listened to the first person’s story, but won’t listen to the other, congratulations, you chose a side. Especially if you ever comment on the situation.”
13. Words as Decor
Apparently, it drives some people crazy to see the popular signs that many people use to decorate their homes that say things like “gather,” “eat,” or “laundry room” in a cute font.
A user rants, “”Love. Laugh. Love.” Why did you waste your money on that?” Another says, “WORDS ARE NOT DECOR.”
14. How You Drive
Driving says a lot about a person, such as their level of patience and ability to problem solve. So, a less-than-favorable car ride is a judgment-worthy experience.
Someone writes, “Bad driving. No turn signal, tailgating, treating the drive like a race.”
15. Your Car
Although driving an older car is budget-friendly, some people may judge you for your frugal choices. Are you too poor to afford something nice? Or if they know you have money they’re wondering why you even drive such an old car.
Let them judge all they want; drive whatever you want.
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JayDee Vykoukal is a writer, author, mom, and Doctor of Physical Therapy. She has been writing about everything motherhood and health-related since 2018 when her first daughter was born, and she wanted to stay home. She loves to research new topics and fun facts with her kids to teach them about the world.
JayDee Vykoukal is a writer, author, mom, and Doctor of Physical Therapy. She has been writing about everything motherhood and health-related since 2018 when her first daughter was born, and she wanted to stay home. She loves to research new topics and fun facts with her kids to teach them about the world.
