Selfishness is the root of many other complications in a relationship. Relationships thrive on balance, mutual respect, and understanding. Selfishness tips that balance and can significantly harm a connection. Self-absorption can be subtle or loud, and unfortunately, we notice it more in our partners than in ourselves. Being self-aware of these behaviors is the first …
Mercy Kambura
Often, we ask others, “How are you?” yet we fall flat when it comes to taking the time to genuinely listen to their response or don’t know what to do if they respond with anything other than “Good, and you?”. You might wonder how you can sincerely help if someone expresses feeling down or whether …
Childhood is a phase where the belief in babies coming from storks reigns true, the limitations of a dollar remain unknown, and the foolishness of selecting summer attire in winter prevails. In some not-so-ideal situations, life throws kids a few curveballs that force them to grow up a little quicker than they should have to. …
People get married for companionship, but marriage can get exhausting pretty fast if there’s no emotional fulfillment. Marriage demands effort and commitment from both partners to make it inwardly satisfying. An emotionally fulfilling marriage isn’t just about love but also understanding, support, and shared growth. If you and your spouse feel content and connected, you’re …
We’ve all experienced that moment of guilt, staring at the wilting cabbage and carrots in the fridge, contemplating the waste of “perfectly good” vegetables. Instead of feeling guilty about that sad-looking spinach or those overly ripe bananas, you can whip them up into a perfect little meal. You don’t have to be an experienced chef …
Most people who live alone know how essential it is to take extra measures to keep themselves safe (especially women). Living alone can be a fulfilling experience but also comes with its own unique challenges and risks. While it can be enticing to let your guard down and relax in the comfort of your own …
Retirement is often associated with newfound freedom and more hours to rest and unwind. However, many retirees long for meaningful engagement and a little extra “fun” money even after they officially quit their 9-to-5. A retiree who wants to continue working usually looks for a job that offers flexibility and the chance to utilize a …
Have you seen a restaurant charge an extortionate price for something, and you could feel your wallet gasping in shock? We may sometimes notice when something is overcharged, but oftentimes, diners don’t know that some (or most) of the items they’re paying a premium for are worth much less. Dining out can be a pleasant …
Recent studies have found toxic chemicals, including lead, in tampons. This scary finding has people reading the ingredients on their products more meticulously, and consumers have become growingly concerned about the potential dangers lurking in everyday products. Toxic heavy metals are substances found in various products, from food and cosmetics to electronics and building materials. …
Sometimes, Murphy’s Law takes over, and anything that could go wrong does. The toughest part about life’s curve balls is that we rarely see them coming. Psychology Today suggests that the most challenging times offer us a chance to trust in something bigger than ourselves and grow stronger through it. It may not feel great …









